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Get this from Kit, something meaningful, something touch my heart….
Good lover? Bad lover?
Just the pass couple of months, a few different individuals came to me and told me that they broke up or they don’t intend to start a new relationship just because they are not a good lover.
So what is a good lover?
For Example:
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Couple A, the guy treats all his friends very well. From a third party point of view, he might treat his friend regardless guys or girls better than his own partner. But the guy assures his partner that in his heart, there’s always only her alone, and all the others are just friends. His partner accepts the fact and accepts the person he is, though she might get jealous at times, but still is a sweet jealousy because she knows her position in his heart.
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Couple B, they are like super glue glued to each other, cannot be separated. But the gal has a very bad temper; she will throw tantrums on her partner without any reasons. But her partner is a very patient guy, although wasn’t his fault, he will always apologize, and try his very best to make her happy again. In the end, they are still glued together happily.
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Couple C, one is always busy with friends and work. And has always accidentally neglected the partner. But the partner is understanding, patient, and was never demanding. When ever the other was busy with something else, he/she will find his/her program and keep occupied. But when ever they are together, the times they spent were sweet and memorable, and they cherish each other a lot.
Who is the better lover in the above cases? And who’s not?
Though they might not be good lovers, but does that really matters?
Aren’t they happy couples? Isn’t that enough?
As a matter of fact, in a relationship, there is actually no such thing as a good lover or a bad lover. The only thing that really matters is whether you’ve found yourself a suitable lover. A person you liked, have feelings for, that can share all your joys, sorrows, thoughts, secrets, everything.
Everyone on this earth are different, people are raised differently, has different opinions and habits. For sure there will be arguments and conflicts.
But if in the midst of all these differences, arguments and conflicts, you can find someone who you can still love, be yourself and be happy. Please treasure him/her.
But if after being together, you found out that both of you were not meant to be. Just let go and move on, with a sincere heart cast your blessing upon him/her. Be natural and be friends.
It is because of “I LOVE YOU” that 2 individuals are together.
It will only be because of “I LOVE YOU NO MORE” that 2 individuals are separated.
好情人？坏情人？
近这几个月，分别有不同的几个人告诉我，他们并不是个好情人！
何谓好情人呢？
例如：
1．一对情侣，一位对每一个朋友都很好，看起来他对朋友比对他情人还要好，但他时常跟对方说，心里只有对方，其他的只是纯粹朋友而已！对方也谅解，接受他的为人，吃醋是有，但也会吃得很甜蜜，因为知道自己在他心里的地位！
2．另一对情侣，他们重是糖痴豆，分不开的。一个的脾气都很坏，时常都会吵吵闹闹，发一些无理的脾气，搞得鸡犬不宁。令一方的脾气就很好，时常都忍让，主动地哄回发脾气的他。但吵完过后，他们依然是深爱对方，依然是分不开！
3．又有另一对情侣，一个为了工作或朋友，时常忽略另一半，但另一方面很体谅，不曾发脾气，当对方没空陪他时，他也就自己找自己的节目。但当他们在一起时，非常地珍惜，非常的甜蜜。这样过得很开心！
以上的，谁是个好情人？谁不是？
不过即使他们不是好情人，那又怎样？
他们大家都过得快乐，那不已经够了吗？
其实，这爱情里，没有什么是好情人，没有什么是坏情人！只是会有适合自己和能配合的情人！一个双方都喜欢，有感觉，有默契，能配合的情人！
每一个人都不一样，两个人在一起本来就肯定会有摩擦，有差别，有不合！
要是能遇到那个在摩擦，差别和不合中都能活得自在和开心的话，就好好珍惜！
但如果遇上合不来的，就要学会放开手，全心的祝福对方！
做不成情侣，也可以潇洒一点，作好朋友的嘛！
两个人在一起，只会是因为“我爱你”而开始！
两个人的分离，也只会是因为“我不爱你了”而结束！
November 9th, 2006 at 4:50 pm
