四眼浦鱼的世界,也许没有太多的话语,但确实是浦鱼想说的话。。。

As December coming, I’m in the mood of Christmas!!! Well, today i start my Christmas shopping liao… very exciting, very enjoy, yet very cham.. coz very PK this month…

     Christmas always is the month of celebration. This year, Christmas is not a normal Christmas, it’s something very meaningful to me. Talking part in the skit for Evangelistic Nite, by rite it’s not under my plan, but yet it jus happened to me in a very strange way. For me, Christmas is a month of gift, month of frens, month of Love. I Love the environment of Christmas, hearing the carol songs, planning to buy christmas gifts, shopping with frens, having Christmas gathering, sharing the Good News…. Christmas, it just as wonderful as it is.

      I love this song, ‘Christmas isn’t Christmas’. Simple just share with your, the lyric that touch my heart the most.

Christmas, isn’t Christmas,
till it happens in your heart,
Somewhere, deep inside you,
is where Christmas really starts,
So give your heart to Jesus,
you’ll discover when you do
That it’s Christmas,
really Christmas, for you.

Jesus brings warmth
like a winter fire,
A light like a candle’s glow.
He’s waiting now to come inside
as He did so long ago,
Jesus brings gifts of truth and life,
and makes them bloom and grow,
So welcome Him with a song of joy,
and when He comes you’ll know

Christmas, isn’t Christmas,
till it happens in your heart,
Somewhere, deep inside you,
is where Christmas really starts,
So give your heart to Jesus,
you’ll discover when you do
That it’s Christmas,
really Christmas, for you.

November 30th, 2006 at 11:12 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

Coke On my desk, there are 2 cans of Coke. Looking at it, it’s nothing special , it’s not the special edition or limited edition from the distributor, just the matter of the 2 persons who gave me these Coke are those girls only 11 years old.

     In the age of 11, they don’t know the politics that happened around, they don’t know what it means by "worried about life"; whatever they know is study hard and get good results, this is what they suppose to do. Back to the Coke that gave by these 2 girls, it just bring the meaning to me that– they appreciate the hard work for their officers!

        Being the officers in a Brigade is not an easy task. Sacrifice our rest time in weekend, putting lots of efforts to make things happened just because we want to see the girls growth in the right way. I believe that in most of the time, officers are tired, they are lossing courage to continue to serve in Brigade, they feel like giving up. But, all of us know, we are called to serve in this ministry. i don’t know about the rest, but as my own opinion, i believe it. As a promise to God, i won’t go unless HE wants me to go!

      Last, would like to encourage all officers in Brigade– our girls and boys know the efforts that we put in, they appreciated it. Personally, i guess there is no greater gift than the girls and boys know how to appreciate their officers. The Coke i received, it strenghten me, bring the courage n hope to me, and i hope it can give the courage to others as well.

November 22nd, 2006 at 8:06 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

不知为什么,最近超爱这首歌,去唱K时也一定会点这首个唱个过瘾, 但是,听过这首割的人都知道,小美很高音!!但,无可否认,它真是太好听了。。没有听过的朋友,你们可以打开浦鱼的profile就可以听到了,也可以告诉浦鱼你们觉得怎样。。。呵呵。。。

对你有感觉
演唱:江美琪 & 光良

我曾深刻体会
对爱感到胆怯
还好有懂我的你
给我安慰

看你失落的脸
又再为爱憔悴
我心痛的感觉竟如此的强烈

眼角的泪
它给过谁
伤透了心
也无所谓
我会愿意
静静地
陪在你身边

如果说爱
已不可为
那我宁愿
藏心里面
其实我害怕会失去你的感觉

怎么会开始对你有了感觉
又深怕朋友默契转身不见
矛盾着犹豫不决
没准备
跨越爱的界线

怎么会开始对你有了感觉
深陷朋友恋人之间的危险
进与退
被爱包围
谁犯规
都狼狈
谁能解围
让一切完美

怎么会开始对你有了感觉
深陷朋友恋人之间的危险
你和我
拥抱瞬间
不后悔
这暧昧
星光唯美
把爱放心里面

November 14th, 2006 at 4:39 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

Get this from Kit, something meaningful, something touch my heart….

Good lover? Bad lover?

Just the pass couple of months, a few different individuals came to me and told me that they broke up or they don’t intend to start a new relationship just because they are not a good lover.
So what is a good lover?
For Example:
  1. Couple A, the guy treats all his friends very well. From a third party point of view, he might treat his friend regardless guys or girls better than his own partner. But the guy assures his partner that in his heart, there’s always only her alone, and all the others are just friends. His partner accepts the fact and accepts the person he is, though she might get jealous at times, but still is a sweet jealousy because she knows her position in his heart.
  2. Couple B, they are like super glue glued to each other, cannot be separated. But the gal has a very bad temper; she will throw tantrums on her partner without any reasons. But her partner is a very patient guy, although wasn’t his fault, he will always apologize, and try his very best to make her happy again. In the end, they are still glued together happily.
  3. Couple C, one is always busy with friends and work. And has always accidentally neglected the partner. But the partner is understanding, patient, and was never demanding. When ever the other was busy with something else, he/she will find his/her program and keep occupied. But when ever they are together, the times they spent were sweet and memorable, and they cherish each other a lot.
Who is the better lover in the above cases? And who’s not?
Though they might not be good lovers, but does that really matters?
Aren’t they happy couples? Isn’t that enough?
As a matter of fact, in a relationship, there is actually no such thing as a good lover or a bad lover. The only thing that really matters is whether you’ve found yourself a suitable lover. A person you liked, have feelings for, that can share all your joys, sorrows, thoughts, secrets, everything.
Everyone on this earth are different, people are raised differently, has different opinions and habits. For sure there will be arguments and conflicts.
But if in the midst of all these differences, arguments and conflicts, you can find someone who you can still love, be yourself and be happy. Please treasure him/her.
But if after being together, you found out that both of you were not meant to be. Just let go and move on, with a sincere heart cast your blessing upon him/her. Be natural and be friends.
It is because of “I LOVE YOU” that 2 individuals are together.
It will only be because of “I LOVE YOU NO MORE” that 2 individuals are separated.

好情人?坏情人?

近这几个月,分别有不同的几个人告诉我,他们并不是个好情人!
何谓好情人呢?
例如:
1.一对情侣,一位对每一个朋友都很好,看起来他对朋友比对他情人还要好,但他时常跟对方说,心里只有对方,其他的只是纯粹朋友而已!对方也谅解,接受他的为人,吃醋是有,但也会吃得很甜蜜,因为知道自己在他心里的地位!
2.另一对情侣,他们重是糖痴豆,分不开的。一个的脾气都很坏,时常都会吵吵闹闹,发一些无理的脾气,搞得鸡犬不宁。令一方的脾气就很好,时常都忍让,主动地哄回发脾气的他。但吵完过后,他们依然是深爱对方,依然是分不开!
3.又有另一对情侣,一个为了工作或朋友,时常忽略另一半,但另一方面很体谅,不曾发脾气,当对方没空陪他时,他也就自己找自己的节目。但当他们在一起时,非常地珍惜,非常的甜蜜。这样过得很开心!
以上的,谁是个好情人?谁不是?
不过即使他们不是好情人,那又怎样?
他们大家都过得快乐,那不已经够了吗?
其实,这爱情里,没有什么是好情人,没有什么是坏情人!只是会有适合自己和能配合的情人!一个双方都喜欢,有感觉,有默契,能配合的情人!
每一个人都不一样,两个人在一起本来就肯定会有摩擦,有差别,有不合!
要是能遇到那个在摩擦,差别和不合中都能活得自在和开心的话,就好好珍惜!
但如果遇上合不来的,就要学会放开手,全心的祝福对方!
做不成情侣,也可以潇洒一点,作好朋友的嘛!
两个人在一起,只会是因为“我爱你”而开始!
两个人的分离,也只会是因为“我不爱你了”而结束!
November 9th, 2006 at 4:50 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

It’s been a long time i didn’t open my blog, hehe.. really miss here. Well, i’ve take a long leave from last Tuesday till Sunday, really enjoy my holidays. Be frank, i never tot holiday can be more tired than working, but this holiday, i experienced it. Guess wat i’m doing? hahaha… tell your one by one…

My activity start on 21-22 Oct, it’s Deepavali, and we went to Berembun Waterfall, experienced the 4WD drive up to hill… Well, it’s fun and exciting, of couse while on the way up to hill, it need a lot to energy to hold tight to the handle so that myself won’t fall down from the 4WD, and the result was, my hand muscle pain lo. The air at the waterfall is very fresh, but the water is damn cold… and guess wat… it makes me refuse to go down to the water! At nite, we hv a nice bbq and steamboat section, it’s very relax and fun. Of coz in the middle of the nite, it was rain… and some of them need to move their tent so that won’t sleep on "water bed" loh. The jungle tracking in next day also fun, and for those who went camping b4, sure yr will know normally jungle will have some kind of insect call "leech". This small blood-sucking worms Once it stick on yr body, it will suck yr blood until it’s full, only it will automatically left yr body. All the girls are lucky, dun know y it just happened to all the boys around..hahaha.

      After this trip, of coz my whole body pain loh, went back to office also can’t move much. On 24 Oct (raya 1st day), Presci, Yian Keong n i went to sing k in Neway Cheras… hohoho… long time didn’t sing liao…

     On 25 Oct, went to climb the Bukit Tabur near Tmn. Melawati. Well, this is another challenge for me… oledi whole body pain, but yet want to go n climb mountain, haiz…. but be frank, the view is very nice up there, although i’m like die off on the hill, but i’m very satisfy when i able to complete the whole climbng journey. This is the 1st time in my life, where i have to used my hand n leg to do the rock climbing without any training before!! When think back, i also felt sweating. But thanks a lot to Presci n Sam who help me lot oh… Again, the leech on the hill is more than Berembun Waterfall, through out the way down hill, we can see the leech moving around….eiw, very "geli" leh…of coz after this activity, the result was… my muscle pain become worst… nearly can see a dry "poouyu" after i went down from the hill, hahaha…

      A day rest in home, on Friday 27 Oct, went to Frasers Hill for my GB Officer retreat. Thank God that this time no need to do any climbing, all the way drive up to the hill, the air is very very fresh, and the food is very nice…. have a great n wonderful retreat will all the officers….

     Eiw…. after 3 days in Frasers Hill, and back to KL on Sunday. Now, here i am in the office… thinking my holiday…..haiz… miss my holiday…overall, although it’s a very tired holiday, but i really enjoy this holiday… thinking of my next holiday liao…hehehe…..

October 29th, 2006 at 8:04 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

昨晚和一班小学同学有个小型聚会,和他们见面其实挺开心的。我不能说大家没变过,只是大家也许都一致的认为,虽然已长大,但某些朋友或某些友谊是不会被忘记的。

老实说,我很享受和他们一起的时间。虽然大家的生活环境各自精彩,但单纯的友谊还是存在的。某些时候,我很享受这种没有压力的友谊。大家坐下,聊聊大家的近况,耍耍嘴皮子,那种感觉真的不赖。希望,我们可以很快再见面,不过,必须现和大家说声抱歉,11月11日的千人宴我真的无法出席, 抱歉噢!

October 19th, 2006 at 8:20 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

P1000661 Well, this photo we took last nite, Dex b’day, and we are in Wong Kok Leisure Mall.

Looking at these 2 guys, this is wat i alwaz call "yat hou piu qing" (一号表情)hehehe…

3 of them, are my best frens,and only last nite i discovered that 4 of us never took a picture before…haiz… paiseh paiseh…when i check back, we alwaz take photos 2 by 2 or 3 by 3, we never take a photo 4 by 4! haiz…. I guess this will be the only album where we can get dex to took photos with us, as most of yr know, dexter dun like to take photo… so i guess this will be the only album where he willing to take photo with us…. hohoho…P1000662_1

Well, this is another photo we took, looking at the way they smile i also feel laughing… haih…. these are my brothers, wat to say? Just wanted to tell them.. i Love your as my brothers and sister.. Frens forever ya!

October 9th, 2006 at 8:25 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (4) | Permalink

曾经听别人说:自由的心,才能感受真实的爱。我在想,何为自由的心呢?广阔的世界,每个人对自由的看法因人而异,当然我也有我的一套看法。

      自由的心,代表着脱离对情感束缚,放下怨恨的包袱,对往事不再执着,撇开心中的芥蒂,坦然的面对生命中的每一天。人的一生当中,很多时候都是活在别人的阴影之下。那个别人,也许是你的家人,你的朋友,你的爱人或。。。你的仇人。我承认,一生当中,也许只有寥寥几天,我们可以以自由的心面对自己的生活。每一天,我们重复的完成自己必须要完成的工作,那也许不是我们喜欢做的事情,但面对上司的要求,家人的期望,我们屈服了。

     假日时, 和朋友逛街聊天,朋友们高谈阔论,炫耀自己拥有的一切,身不由己,我们也戴着自己临时制造的面具,坐在一起瞎掰。心的自由,看似很简单,做起来却比登山还难。我不知道是习惯,还是身不由己,或是生活道具,但自由的心真的不容易办到。

    不自由的心,自然感觉不到真实的爱。虚伪、假装、怀疑成了每天见到的画面。我们不再拿出自己的真心对待身边的人,我们坚信真心付出的下场将会是遍体鳞伤和受创的心。如果身边的朋友对自己好一点,我们会以为他在奉承,在讨好我们。紧张的气氛好似一触即发,我真的觉得,好累!

     如果有那么一天,我们断绝了七情六欲,断绝一切感情的枷锁,放弃自己的事业、理想,那我们也许能拥有自由的心,但那也只是也许。。。

October 5th, 2006 at 8:59 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (0) | Permalink

This is wat i read this morning, very meaningful…

A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes.

When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open.

He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.

His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. 

It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages.

When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital. He died.

The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.

When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.

QUESTIONS:

1. What were the five words?

2. What is the implication of this story?

ANSWER:

The husband just said "I am with you Darling".
The husband’s totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The
 child is dead.

He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother.
Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would
 
not have happened.

No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.

That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, 

there would be much fewer problems in the world.

"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take
off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears.

And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

MORAL OF THE STORY


This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking
who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a
job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.

After i read, it makes me realize that we always used to blame others when things went wrong, but actually it’s not. As the story mentioned, there is no point in finding fault with the mother, even when things go wrong in our life, there is no point to finding fault with others. Just be courage and positive, life will be full with colors and hopes…

Have a nice and blessed day…..

September 21st, 2006 at 5:59 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (2) | Permalink

Doro_1024 I have collect some wall paper with my favorite–> Doggie… eiw,… i try to upload some to let your see, but if any of u really likes, can drop me a msg,,,.. eiw,,, my lovely Dog..

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lovely doggie…..

September 19th, 2006 at 8:36 pm | Comments & Trackbacks (4) | Permalink